Women should stay at home or go for work after getting married?

According to you, what is the ideal woman in the morden life? Are they women who are successful in their job or assume responsibility for the household? After getting marriage, many women go on working outside their home but the others just stay at home and take care of their family. To me, no matter how comfortable our life is, we should go out for work because of many advantages.

Firstly, our outside job helps us to be independent on our finance. Although our husband are wealthy and can buy anything we want, we had better continue our job. That makes us feel comfortable when we spend money instead of asking money from husband every month. We are free to go shopping, go spa and buy all thing we like by our salary without worry about husband or mother-in-law. We should not be confined in the house just to do the household chores. We should go out for work to show the men what women can do and contribute to the society and their own family. I believe that our husband will respect and support us more and more when we have our own income. Many couples make argument because the wives do not work outside, just stay at home but spend much money of their husbands and depend on his salary. Why we have to use other people's money? Why don't we go out for work and be independent on our finance?

Secondly, our work helps us widen knowledge. We can use what we learned in university effectively and satisfy with them. Because of the requirement of our job, we need to meet all kinds of people. Therefore, we can improve our social skills, get more information and experiences in life. It helps us widen working relationship to many people who can support our job. Moreover, our work makes us more active and creative. Working mothers, who are educated, can assist their children with homework and talk about the world issues. Some people think that women should stay at home to take care of their family. If both husband and wife work outside, who will look after their children? However, outside job can support women by experiences to educate children and lead them to be good and active persons. We also can hire a baby-sister to take care of children and do housework. So it is important for women to go out for work and socialize with community.


Nowadays, men not only love housewives but also women who are successful in life and be able to support their job. Women should not limit themselves. They should be encourged to work outside and show their abilities.