GO OR STOP?!

According to you,what is the ideal woman in the modern life? Are they women who are successful in their job or assume responsibility for the household? After getting married, many women go on working outside their home but the others just stay at home and take care of their family. To me, however comfortable our life is, we should go out for work because of many advantages.
Firstly, our outside job helps us to be independent on our finance. Although our husband is wealthy and can buy everything we want, we had better continue our job. That makes us feel more comfortable and not to be dependent on our husband's money. We will not be afraid when asking our husband for money. It is happy if we get money from our work and what we did. We are free to go shopping, go spa and buy anything with our salary. We should not be confined in the house to do just the household chores. We should go outside to work and show men what we can do and contribute to the society and our family. I believe that our husband will respect and support us more and more when we have our own income. Many couples usually make argument because the wife does not go out for work, just stay at home but spend much money of her husband and depent on his salary. So why we have to use other people's money? Why don't we go to work and indepent on our finance?
Secondly, our work helps us gain our knowledge. We can use what we learn in our university effectively and satisfy with them. Because of the requirement of our work, we need to meet many kinds of people. Therefore, we can improve our social skills, get more information and experients in life. It helps us widen our working relationship with other people who can support our job. So it is easier for us to get high success and promotion. Moreover, working makes us more active and creative. It also relaxes our mind and helps us avoid the stress from housework. Working mothers, who are more educated, can assist their children with homework, and talk about the world issues. Outside jobs give us experients to educate our chidren and let them to be a responsible person. So it is necessary for women to go out for work and socialize with community.
Some people argue that if the women work outside the house, their family will have some problems such as arguements about the household and children. If both mothers and fathers work outside the home, how will they arrange to take care of their children? It will make our family life get stress. However,a modern woman can know how to arrange their outside work and their family logically. Nowadays,it is usual for us to get our children to the kindergartens. Morever, the old people have many experients so our parents can help us to look after the childen. One more good way is that we can hire a baby-sitter to take care of our children and do housework. So,women can go out for work without worry about their children and household.
Nowadays,men not only like housewives but also love women who are successful in life and can help them to support their work. Women should not limit themselves. Women should be encourged to work outside and show their ability. The modern women know what should to do and how to arrange eveything. So, getting married does not mean stop, it is just a good change to go on.