Thứ Năm, 16 tháng 12, 2010

Women should stay at home or go for work after getting married?

According to you, what is the ideal woman in the morden life? Are they women who are successful in their job or assume responsibility for the household? After getting marriage, many women go on working outside their home but the others just stay at home and take care of their family. To me, no matter how comfortable our life is, we should go out for work because of many advantages.

Firstly, our outside job helps us to be independent on our finance. Although our husband are wealthy and can buy anything we want, we had better continue our job. That makes us feel comfortable when we spend money instead of asking money from husband every month. We are free to go shopping, go spa and buy all thing we like by our salary without worry about husband or mother-in-law. We should not be confined in the house just to do the household chores. We should go out for work to show the men what women can do and contribute to the society and their own family. I believe that our husband will respect and support us more and more when we have our own income. Many couples make argument because the wives do not work outside, just stay at home but spend much money of their husbands and depend on his salary. Why we have to use other people's money? Why don't we go out for work and be independent on our finance?

Secondly, our work helps us widen knowledge. We can use what we learned in university effectively and satisfy with them. Because of the requirement of our job, we need to meet all kinds of people. Therefore, we can improve our social skills, get more information and experiences in life. It helps us widen working relationship to many people who can support our job. Moreover, our work makes us more active and creative. Working mothers, who are educated, can assist their children with homework and talk about the world issues. Some people think that women should stay at home to take care of their family. If both husband and wife work outside, who will look after their children? However, outside job can support women by experiences to educate children and lead them to be good and active persons. We also can hire a baby-sister to take care of children and do housework. So it is important for women to go out for work and socialize with community.


Nowadays, men not only love housewives but also women who are successful in life and be able to support their job. Women should not limit themselves. They should be encourged to work outside and show their abilities.

Writing 3- Two my motherlands

I was born in Quang Binh but grow up in Kon Tum province. When I was 10 years old, I left to Kon Tum with my parents. Up to now, although nearly ten years passed by, I still miss Quang Binh so much. I consider both of them as my motherlands. They have some differences but are similar in some ways.

They are different from the climate and ecosystem. There are full of seasons in Quang Binh but just 2 seasons in Kon Tum. Because Quang Binh is located in the Middle North of country so it has four seasons spring, summer, autumn, winter. Each season has private characteristics. I am very happy as I used to spend the heavy cool of this countryside. That is really rare in Kon Tum. Kon Tum just lives with 2 seasons( rain and dry season). The vary in climate lead to the differences in ecosystem of each place. Place where I was born has a lot of lakes, rivers, especially be famous for Nhat Le river- a brave river in the country's war but in Kon Tum, there are just extensive mountains and forests. If you have a chance to Quang Binh, you will be attracted by huge fields, green grass fields and yellow limitless expanses of fat crops. It makes you feel really peaceful and comfortable. However, coming to the second land, you will see "industry forests". Kon Tum is famous for coffee trees and rubbish forests. People usually remember it with the image of innumerable industrial forests. In short, each place has its own interesting things.

Despite the differences, both of them have some similarities in characteristic of people in 2 countrysides. People are friendly, studious, honesty in there. They always welcome warmly you and make you comfortable as in your home. They also give you friendly smiles and will to help you whenever you need. They are unforgetable countrysides to all of people who used to be there. Furthermore, two of them are still poor lands. Everyone has to work hard and try their best to manage their life. It is rare to find any buildings or beautiful big house there. However, low living standard makes people here love and satisfy each other more and more. That is a precious characteristic of people in 2 areas.

To each people, motherland is the place where we were born, brought up and grow. I am so lucky and happy to have two dear hometowns. Although they are different or similar in any way, I still love both.

Writing 3- My paradise

My favorite place is my little room. It is just about 12 meter square but decorated beautifully and attractively. Now I am living far from home so I can not renew it regularly. However, in my mind, it is always a colorful paradise.

My room is full of colors. The room's wall is decorated by blue papers. This color makes it cooler and more comfortable. Most of furniture in my room such as table, desk, shelf and bed...are red and pink because I love "hot colors". They make me feel active and hopeful. All of colors are connected harmoniously, brighten the beautiful of my room.
Although being rather small, my room is also full of conveniences of every sort necessarily. There is a little pink bed with a lot of toys in the room's left. In the right is the place including table, desk and shelf...for my studying. Especially, there is a mini refrigerator put near the bed always being full of fruits. it is really a wonderful place.

Now, although I am leaving home to study in HCM city and I just go home on Tet holiday or summer days, whenever I come back home, I am still happy and miss it so much. Are you impressed with my little room?! I hope you love it like me so.

Writing 3_ Watching TV is harmful to children or not.

TV is the most popular entertainment tool all over the world. It has both many advantages and disadvantages to us, especially to children. There are some arguments around this problem that watching TV is harmful to children or not. In my opinion,over watching TV is not only harmful to children's health but also their studying.

Firstly, watching TV too much makes bad effects on children's health. Children sit many hours in front of TV means they do not do any other activities; it makes children lazy and do not want to do exercises too so they are easy to get obesity. It also affects to thier eyes. For example, their eyes will be affected by myopia, even serious myopia. Moreover, over watching TV decrease children's creative thinking because they do not attend outdoor activities. Besides, some programs on TV such as horror film, violent films...make them get nightmare or be obsessed by these. IN short, watching TV much is not good for children's physical and mental health.

Secondly, children addicting to watching TV have bad result of studying. If they spend much time to watch TV, they will have less time for studying. It also makes children become lazy. They just want to watch TV all the time and do not care about their lesson. As a result, they will get bad result for studying. Some people think that children can learn some useful things from TV such as discover channel, scientific programs. It also helps them to relax. However, these programs usually make them bored so they do not want to watch any more and change to other film or entertainment programs. Furthermore, parents are so busy, they can not control which channel their children choose or the time they sit in front of TV. It leads children to getting addicted to watching TV and do not concentrate on studying.

To brief, children should not watch Tv too much because of above reasons. It is really not good to children. To reduce these bad effects, parents should control more strictly what their children watch on TV.